You complete me – Tom Cruise’ famous line in Jerry Maguire and our quest to find that “perfect match”. Every individual needs to love and to be loved. As we all know, finding Ms. Right or Mr. Right is not an easy task. Where do you begin especially if you are a plus size person?
Dating is the most engaging and soulful event in our life. What happens during the first date is very crucial, as it is the deciding factor of a mutual relationship. What takes place after the first date is always a mystery. No one can draw a line or state a formula that can be used to make your first date successful. However there are few tips for plus size or overweight people to help when planning a date:
First, always wear clothing that is flattering to your body. For more advice on plus size dresses and clothing please see “Girls Plus Size Dresses – Tips for Girls and Ladies to Pick the Right Large Size Trendy Clothes” http://largesizeliving.com/style/girls-plus-size-dresses-tips-for-girls-and-ladies-to-pick-the-right-large-size-trendy-clothes/
Never wear something that is two sizes too small thinking that you will be showing off your better attributes. Wear clothing that complements your plus size body. You know what you feel comfortable in, and you know what looks good on you so use that to your advantage. Once you’re comfortable, you’ll find yourself feeling good.
The key is to be confident! It’s easy to feel unsecured about your plus size figure in public places especially in restaurants and places that accommodate smaller people. It is important to project confidence in yourself regardless of your setting. If you don’t act like you’re a sexy, intelligent person, then why would anyone what to date you? Consider this: you’re not too big for this world; this world is too small for you. It doesn’t matter if you’re a size 2 or a size 20: you are a good looking and intelligent person with a lot to offer.
Find and talk about things that you have in common. Don’t talk about your past experiences in detail. No one wants to hear all the details on a first date. Keep some mystery. Never talk about bodily functions, ailments or surgeries that you have had or are planning to have on your first date. Ask questions that you think will help the conversation move along. Where did you grow up? What are your favourite books, movies or musical artists? What kind of food you like or dislike? What is your favourite sports team? Where have you travelled? Key is to ask open ended questions to keep the conversation going.
Don’t assume someone has a certain type for certain. Just like some people prefer blonds or brunettes, long hair or short hair, you cannot tell if you are someone’s type just by looking at them. Be open to dating a variety of people, be honest, be you and have fun regardless of your plus size figure!
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